Questions Answered to be Pondered

The following is a chat discussion I felt I would like to share with you. I haven’t edited it one bit so please try to follow along the conversation as best you can and feel free to share your thoughts when finished reading. Oh and please ignore the bad spelling and silly typos this was an IM chat:

cyberman1230: I am always wondering why i like so much to be nude either alone or in front of other people
violetsungoddess: i always thought because nude is our natural state.
cyberman1230: yes, but do you think that it has a sexual background also?
violetsungoddess: only if you connect the two. I think nudity only is sexual if one makes it so but nudity in itself is very nonsexual. Nudity is just nudity, Sex is just sex. It may be easier to have sex while nude but they are different since you can be nude without being sexual and you can be sexual without being nude
violetsungoddess: much of the porn industry knows this which is why you see so much lace and leather or high boots
violetsungoddess: among other things
cyberman1230: yes, sure
violetsungoddess: the origional pin up girls were not at all nude but just in diffrent positions with a look of lust on their faces
violetsungoddess: it is all in the mind
violetsungoddess: but nude is our natural state
violetsungoddess: i could see hundreds of people nude without getting turned on
violetsungoddess: I could see hundreds of clothed people and get turned on, or not
violetsungoddess: it really makes no difference to me and many other nudists i talk to
cyberman1230: I do agree also
violetsungoddess: but we are higly sexual beings and that is also natural
violetsungoddess: all my point is that one doent always go with the other even though it can if you wish it to be so
cyberman1230: that's right
violetsungoddess: many cannot separat it in their minds do to modern society programming and the constant bombardment of sexuality infiltrating everything in ads and the media
cyberman1230: you know, I am trying to connect the physical state to be nude with the pleasure of been watched nude or to watch others been nude
violetsungoddess: therefore many people get various wrong ideas about sex and how it affects people or even children who may or may not be exposed to certian images. They have no idea that much of what they al call "protection of our youth" is actually "keeping them from the truth" which can cause more harm then just being open and honest about hings that are natural
violetsungoddess: the children of the world are much smarter and stronger than much of the mainsream society thinks and that bugs me that children are being so underestimated they all end up with less self esteam, underestimate themsleves, become sheep or even drones. It is very sad i think
cyberman1230: Yes it is!
violetsungoddess: Children should be lifted up, ecuraged to do good and healthey things, empowered to be who they want to be
violetsungoddess: none of us have a system in place to do that yet though
violetsungoddess: so that is why i will be homeschooling all my kids
violetsungoddess: and why i will start my own private schools to give kids the chance to help make this world truly a better place
violetsungoddess: and put the art programs back into the old schools
cyberman1230: I wish you to make that a reality
violetsungoddess: and have only teachers who agree with me for the most part on how the children should be guided and instructed.
violetsungoddess: enough with schools being treated like preisons
violetsungoddess: enough with all the cops and metal detecotrs
cyberman1230: yes, yes I agree with you
violetsungoddess: enough with kids feeling the need to shot others or themselves just to get the attention they crave for so long
violetsungoddess: They have been screaming for our attention, our love and our help but no one out there seems to be getting their messages the right way or doing the right things to fix it
violetsungoddess: i plan to
violetsungoddess: and i will get others to help me fix it
cyberman1230: that will be a dream to come true
violetsungoddess: i can see no other effective way to chage the world from negative to posative other than to teach our children that they really do matter to us, that they can make a difference, that they are loved and can get the rigth kind and amount of attention from others if they just follow a few simple steps that all the others seem to never have learned well enough to teach
violetsungoddess: all those poor kids who are neglected pisses me off to see it is all our fault
violetsungoddess: our society who has done this to them
violetsungoddess: and they are blind to see the effects of their actions
violetsungoddess: We MUST change that and make them see
violetsungoddess: We must make things more posative
violetsungoddess: it will take much effort, much agreements, much time, much cooperation
violetsungoddess: but i will give it my all and expect everyone i work with to also give it their all
violetsungoddess: our children of the world are worth it
cyberman1230: Please tell me where do you derive all those wonderful ideas?
violetsungoddess: I look around me, see what happends, study our history of how we got here, keep my eyes open, keep my mind open and then listen to my heart. I go serching for the good i see in the world and see how it got good, I go looking for the bad and see how it got bad then listen to my heart and the ideas and hearts of others around me. I listen to those who are smarter than I am and try to figure out how I can process information better.
violetsungoddess: I look at those less fortunate and put mysef in their shoes, then listen to my heart
violetsungoddess: I see the world through so many eyeys then listen to my heart
violetsungoddess: some how with enough discussions, stories and information my heart and my brian can come to the proper aggreements and i hope that answer your question
cyberman1230: Yes you answer my question and i believe that you are a wonderful person! I really love to read what you write and I beieve also that you are very special person. I am also happy that I can talk with you even if am so far away from you!
violetsungoddess: Thank you for your kind words. You are also capable of doing as i do. Step 1 is to eliminate all of your fear. Not just conqure it but elimitate it all together. Do not be afraid to feel the hard stuff as well as the good stuff. Do not be afraid to get you hands dirty so you can see what must be seen to have understanding. Do not be afraid of what others may think of you no matter what. Do not be afraind to be who you want to be right now and then do not be afraid to change your mind or make a mistake. Eliminate all fear. It will only hold you back. We are all human and i still work on this one but i have been at it a while so i have expanded my horizons. You can too.
cyberman1230: You gave today some answers that i was looking and searching for a long time and i thank you too
violetsungoddess: well step two may be mmore tricky so let me know when you think you are ready for it after you have worked on step one for a while.
cyberman1230: ok. That it the time were I am working with my fears of any kind. I am trying to eliminate those fears and free myself. So words are coming at the right time in the right place....
cyberman1230: And really thank you for that!